Have you ever been stuck in your network marketing business?
Here are some thoughts and questions you need to ask yourself to get yourself unstuck and refocused on your purpose.
Are you really accepting your reality at the End of the day?
NOW WHY IS THAT IMPORTANT TO BE ACCEPTING YOUR REALITY AT THE END OF THE DAY?
When you accept and own the reality of your business at the end of the day which includes, your own self development, your own behavior you can see where you need to learn new skills or need to get more into action.
You are the only one that is accountable for your belief in your reality. Only you can change that reality and change it into the magic when you begin to own your reality and teach others to own their reality.
That's when the magic begins to actually happen.
So here are 4 areas that you need to look at to get a good reality of your life and your business.
Because when you finally accept your own reality and how that is affecting you in attracting others to you. It becomes the magic that we are as network marketing owners are looking for!
The First lesson is:
You have to learn to grow up and accept the reality of the “End of the Day.”
Accept where you are and what you need to do in order to get to where you want to be.
Second lesson is:
You and Only You has to get into action, then turn around, and teach the next group of people what you just did to get that result.
But First you must accept these facts of reality:
- there is no magic bullet
- there is no secret
- there is no magical pitch or script that is going to make you successful
- there is no product, program, no pay plan that will make you successful
- no one is going to care about your business more than you!
- no one is going to coach you step by step
- no one is going to hold you accountable
- no one is going to do it for you
- no one is going to give you the blueprint, the step by step plan, the instructional process no one is going to give you that because IT DOESN'T EXIST!
Think about it, even if you go and buy a McDonald's franchise… It won't work unless you show up and put it into action by hiring, training, the staff, and teaching your staff how to take really good care of your customers.
You can read all of the manuals that come with the McDonald franchise, but unless you put those manuals into action.. You are going to be out of business fast!!!
Same way with network marketing “Everything that is taught to you will be based upon your actions and activity in order for you to have success.”
Second Fact of Reality is:
When you “Learn Activity” the people, places, and things that will take you forward will arrive.
When you are in action and activity, people that are able to help you will not be able to help themselves but to reach out and help you mostly because you are producing an income for them and most people want to be around people that are motivated and trying to better themselves and others.
When you are waiting for the magic bullet, the magic secret, that means no one or nobody is going to show up because you are not attracting the right kind of people to you, your whining, complaining, and low energy.
Leaders are always attracted to energy and light! Leaders step in and assist a person in action!
So just SHOW UP and GET INTO ACTION!
No one is a guru! The only difference between the top leaders in your network marketing business and you.
The Leaders in your network marketing companies and leaders in the marketing industry they just took action quicker, developed their skills consistently, and taught others to duplicate their skills efficiently and massively.
You just need to be a person that executes and gets into action quickly!!!
Third lesson to learn there is “NO ONE BETTER THAN YOU!”
Until you decide this… you will go nowhere!
There is no one SMARTER THAN YOU!!!
Finish this sentence… If you decided today, I am going to be the best____________?
- What are you going to be the best at?
- What skills are you going to need to develop to be the best at?
- What books or tapes do you need to listen to develop those skills?
- Who do you need to talk to to develop those skills?
- COMMIT TO MASTER THESE SKILLS!!
The further and longer you work in this industry you will realize, that there are no gurus. They are just plain people that have developed their skill sets, communication, and been successful in teaching others their skills sets and communication skills.
Instead of talking about themselves, they have managed to package their story about other people and shared it with others massively and they got into massive action to get the results that they wanted!
There is nothing wrong about you just share your story with others and then share their stories with others.
Because when you make it about others, people will be attracted to you!
WHAT NOT TO DO:
If your counting on your support team to keep you accountable, to keep you motivated, well that's a problem, because what happens when that person is no longer there?
What happens when you are there all by yourself and you haven't held yourself up and told yourself that you can do it!
When you haven't made the decision to be all you can be.
When you haven't drawn the line in the sand and looked yourself in the mirror and made a list of the things that are keeping you from reaching your goals or dreams.
JUST REMEMBER! NO ONE AND NOTHING is standing in your way! No one is stopping you living the life you want!
The business you have is just the vehicle to get you to what you are truly passionate about.
“Most people won't discover their true passion until they get into action”
Most of the bad things in life, when you look back, really just got you ready for the next direct path to your destination of your purpose in life.
The Fourth Lesson of Reality is to learn to TRUST
- Stop doubting yourself
- stop doubting what works
- stop jumping from one network marketing company to another
- stop jumping from one course to another course; first put into action what the course teaches you.
- trust your dreams
- trust your goals
“What you want is on the other end of trust”
Just accept that you in fact could be the “Santa Claus” to someone else
You need to come to trust that GOD is taking you where you belong
Anything that you believe you want should be yours… ITS TRUE… ITS IN YOU!
DREAM IT, BELIEVE IT, ACHIEVE IT, TRUST IT!
That's why its so important to pick a method and master it!
- What have you been taught to do in the last year that you did successfully and you stopped doing it? Why?
- What experience have you experienced and you felt alive and you stopped doing it? Why did you quit?
- Who were the people around you when you felt alive and energized? Where are they Now? Why have you not got back together? When are you going to get back together?
Learn to listen to the voice that is rising out of your soul.
- Make a list of rules how someone has to be if they want to be in your environment, because they are a guest in your environment…
- There is no better person for people that are meant for you.. .Than you!
- There is an audience only for you waiting for you!
Would you trust and open up so that your audience that is waiting for you can find you?
Well then…. you need to get into action and start branding you.
Tell people about you, your goals, and dreams,
By showing others how you can help them reach their goals and dreams
You can start building and attracting your audience by learning new skills, like Blogging, Videos, Live Videos, learning social media skills, if you don't know how to achieve these skills,
Thanks for stopping by talk to you soon,
farm gal, mom, health advocate, and online social media coach helping rural women build income streams online using attraction and social media marketing