So are you sort of feeling like this guy on the left?
You made all your lists, set all of your goals, thought you had a plan and now you are frustrated beyond belief!!!
Because you don't see any great strides yet in reaching or even starting to reach your monthly goals…let alone your 90 day goals…..
Well let me tell you in 22 years of being in the network marketing business I could write a book on the frustrations of network marketing.
But instead I am going to share with you how to refocus your mind.. because after all in network marketing or even in life in general to hit a goal sometimes you just need to modify or change your approach…
After all the definition of Frustration is a plan or attempted action from progressing, succeeding, or being fulfilled.
So if you looked at the word frustration.. you are not failing at your attempt to succeed at that goal.
There is just something that is getting in your way of being fulfilled or completed…
(MOST OF THE TIME YOU JUST HAVE TO DO A LITTLE RE-MINDSET TRAINING….)
Its called OBSTACLES!!!!
I have found that if I take a pencil and a paper and just start writing down all of the obstacles or even feelings (because that's what frustrations are….feelings and a lot of them are negative) then I can see what obstacles and feelings I have to get over or around.
If any of you are Dave Ramsey followers you know his method of getting rid of debt is to write down all of your debts and then start paying off the littlest debt first after you have built up your emergency fund!
So that's what you need to do right now….. get out that pencil and paper and just write down all of your feelings and frustrations so that you can start building up that self confidence fund.
What frustrations or obstacles are getting in your way?…. most of the time one frustration or obstacle can be broken into several obstacles or frustrations!!
So now you should know something about your frustrations or obstacles:
What is your biggest frustration and what is your smallest frustration?
Where can you get a small victory the quickest by getting rid of 1 frustration or obstacle?
What obstacles are getting in your way?
Just like Dave Ramsey…Pick the obstacle or frustration that you can handle the fastest…this is how you start building up your self confidence fund fast.
Now keep going through your list and within 30-90 days you will see that your SELF CONFIDENCE HAS COME UP and YOUR FRUSTRATION HAS COME DOWN because you have TAKEN ACTION and QUIT WHINING!!!
Thanks for reading,
farm gal & mom who shares positive tips life tips with entrepreneurial moms